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Friday, January 3, 2014

Habits of Successful People: They Start Before They Feel Ready

In 1966, a dyslexic sixteen-year-old boy dropped out of school. With the help of a friend, he started a magazine for students and made money by selling advertisements to local businesses. With only a little bit of money to get started, he ran the operation out of the crypt inside a local church.
Four years later, he was looking for ways to grow his small magazine and started selling mail order records to the students who bought the magazine. The records sold well enough that he built his first record store the next year. After two years of selling records, he decided to open his own record label and recording studio.
He rented the recording studio out to local artists, including one named Mike Oldfield. In that small recording studio, Oldfield created his hit song, Tubular Bells, which became the record label’s first release. The song went on to sell over 5 million copies.
Over the next decade, the young boy grew his record label by adding bands like the Sex Pistols, Culture Club, and the Rolling Stones. Along the way, he continued starting companies: an airline business, then trains, then mobile phones, and on and on. Almost 50 years later, there were over 400 companies under his direction.
Today, that young boy who dropped out of school and kept starting things despite his inexperience and lack of knowledge is a billionaire. His name is Sir Richard Branson.

How I Met Sir Richard Branson

Two weeks ago, I walked into a conference room in Moscow, Russia and sat down ten feet from Branson. There were 100 other people around us, but it felt like we were having a conversation in my living room. He was smiling and laughing. His answers seemed unrehearsed and genuine.
At one point, he told the story of how he started Virgin Airlines, a tale that seems to capture his entire approach to business and life. Here’s the version he told us, as best I can remember it:
I was in my late twenties, so I had a business, but nobody knew who I was at the time. I was headed to the Virgin Islands and I had a very pretty girl waiting for me, so I was, umm, determined to get there on time.
At the airport, my final flight to the Virgin Islands was cancelled because of maintenance or something. It was the last flight out that night. I thought this was ridiculous, so I went and chartered a private airplane to take me to the Virgin Islands, which I did not have the money to do.
Then, I picked up a small blackboard, wrote “Virgin Airlines. $29.” on it, and went over to the group of people who had been on the flight that was cancelled. I sold tickets for the rest of the seats on the plane, used their money to pay for the chartered plane, and we all went to the Virgin Islands that night.
I took this photo right after he told that story. A few moments later I stood shoulder–to–shoulder with him (he’s about six feet tall) and thanked him for sharing some time with us.
habits of successful peopleSir Richard Branson in Moscow, Russia. Photo by James Clear.

The Habits of Successful People: What Makes the Difference?

After speaking with our group, Branson sat on a panel with industry experts to talk about the future of business. As everyone around him was filling the air with business buzzwords and talking about complex ideas for mapping out our future, Branson was saying things like: “Screw it, just get on and do it.” Which was closely followed by: “Why can’t we mine asteroids?”
As I looked up at that panel, I realized that the person who sounded the most simplistic was also the only one who was a billionaire. Which prompted me to wonder, “What’s the difference between Branson and everyone else in the room?”
Here’s what I think makes all the difference:
Branson doesn’t merely say things like, “Screw it, just get on and do it.” He actually lives his life that way. He drops out of school and starts a business. He signs the Sex Pistols to his record label when everyone else says they are too controversial. He charters a plane when he doesn’t have the money.
When everyone else balks or comes up with a good reason for why the time isn’t right, Branson gets started.

Start Now

Branson is an extreme example, but we could all learn something from his approach.
If you want to summarize the habits of successful people into one phrase, it’s this: successful people start before they feel ready.
If there was ever someone who embodied the idea of starting before they felt ready to do so, it’s Branson. The very name of his business empire, Virgin, was chosen because when Branson and his partners started they were “virgins” when it came to business.
Branson has started so many businesses, ventures, charities, and expeditions that it’s simply not possible for him to have felt prepared, qualified, and ready to start all of them. In fact, it’s unlikely that he was qualified or prepared to start any of them. He had never flown a plane and didn’t know anything about the engineering of planes, but he started an airline company anyway.
If you’re working on something important, then you’ll never feel ready. A side effect of doing challenging work is that you’re pulled by excitement and pushed by confusion at the same time.
You’re bound to feel uncertain, unprepared, and unqualified. But let me assure you of this: what you have right now is enough. You can plan, delay, and revise all you want, but trust me, what you have now is enough to start.
It doesn’t matter if you’re trying to start a business, lose weight, write a book, or achieve any number of goals… who you are, what you have, and what you know right now is good enough to get going.
We all start in the same place: no money, no resources, no contacts, no experience. The difference is that some people — the winners — choose to start anyway.
If you’re having trouble getting started, then read this article: How to Stop Procrastinating.
No matter where you are in the world and regardless of what you’re working on, I hope you’ll start before you feel ready.
This post originally appeared on JamesClear.com

The Dream Is Free, But The Hustle Is Sold Separately

The Dream Is Free, But The Hustle Is Sold Separately.


Pack Your Bags

Today, 1/3/14, I posted a picture of a beautiful vacation destination on my Ultimate Money Success Facebook page (if you haven't yet, I hope you will "like" the page now). After I posted it, I started typing some words about the picture, and something came out that sounded goofy at first, but after reflecting on it, I thought to myself, "THIS IS AWESOME!" So, I want to share it with you. I hope this rocks your mind and motivates you to... PACK YOUR BAGS!

Pack Your Bags, Starting With Your Mind First

When you take a trip somewhere, you get ready to go, book your flight / train / boat / etc., check your calendar, make sure you have everything, make plans for the animals / work / house, and then you pack your bags. You plan what you are going to take and put those items into a suitcase, bag or piece of luggage for the trip, right?
Well, I want you to do the very same thing, starting with your MIND. Put into your mind the things you will need for your future trip. For the vacation. But also for life. Your life. Your future. Pack your bags.

We are talking about that dream vacation you want to take. That special trip on a cruise. Maybe somewhere on the other side of the world. Maybe it's an active vacation. Maybe it's to get away and relax, read, and relax some more. So, in preparation for that trip, pack your bags, starting with your mind. 

1. What To Bring. With what, you ask? With thoughts of success. Positive affirmations - "I am going to take this dream trip, and nothing is going to stop me!" Inspiration in the form of books, quotes, or successful teachings and messages. Powerful teaching and training to help you get to where you want to be.

2. What NOT To Bring. If you fly on an airplane, you know there are some items you are not allowed to bring with you on the plane. In the very same manner, there are things you CANNOT bring with you as you pack your mind. You cannot bring negativity. A mindset of failure. "I can't do this." An attitude that you will never amount to anything. These things are ILLEGAL on the plane to your dream trip, not allowed. Don't bring them! Take them out of your mind! Throw them away! You don't want to come back to that stuff.

3. How Much To Pack. A LOT. As much as you can. Read books that inspire you. Listen to music or teachings that motivate you to succeed. Hang around people that lift you up, and ignore those who tear you down. You can succeed, and you will succeed. So why not pack heavy? Get the biggest suitcase you can and stuff it with strong, empowering, motivating, exciting things that will soar you to new heights of success! There is no size limit for this bag. In fact, the more, the better!

Get ready. You are about to go on your new life- filled with wonder, success, happiness, and opportunities beyond your wildest dreams. And it all starts with you... packing your bags.

I want YOU to pack the bag of your mind with complete assurance that you CAN and you WILL succeed. I want you to join this self-employed business for yourself and see what will happen in your life.

We Become What We...

"Here is the key to success, and... the key to failure: We become what we think about."

-Earl Nightingale
"The Strangest Secret"

So, what do YOU think about? What are YOU becoming?

If you think about success, financial independence, prosperity, and achieving your wants, goals, and desires, than you want to click this link and find out the next step to getting there.

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Nine Things Successful People Do DIFFERENTLY

Why have you been so successful in reaching some of your goals, but not others? If you aren’t sure, you are far from alone in your confusion. It turns out that even brilliant, highly accomplished people are pretty lousy when it comes to understanding why they succeed or fail. The intuitive answer — that you are born predisposed to certain talents and lacking in others — is really just one small piece of the puzzle. In fact, decades of research on achievement suggests that successful people reach their goals not simply because of who they are, but more often because of what they do.
1. Get specific. When you set yourself a goal, try to be as specific as possible. “Lose 5 pounds” is a better goal than “lose some weight,” because it gives you a clear idea of what success looks like. Knowing exactly what you want to achieve keeps you motivated until you get there. Also, think about the specific actions that need to be taken to reach your goal. Just promising you’ll “eat less” or “sleep more” is too vague — be clear and precise. “I’ll be in bed by 10pm on weeknights” leaves no room for doubt about what you need to do, and whether or not you’ve actually done it.

2. Seize the moment to act on your goals. Given how busy most of us are, and how many goals we are juggling at once, it’s not surprising that we routinely miss opportunities to act on a goal because we simply fail to notice them. Did you really have no time to work out today? No chance at any point to return that phone call? Achieving your goal means grabbing hold of these opportunities before they slip through your fingers.
To seize the moment, decide when and where you will take each action you want to take, in advance. Again, be as specific as possible (e.g., “If it’s Monday, Wednesday, or Friday, I’ll work out for 30 minutes before work.”) Studies show that this kind of planning will help your brain to detect and seize the opportunity when it arises, increasing your chances of success by roughly 300%.
3. Know exactly how far you have left to go. Achieving any goal also requires honest and regular monitoring of your progress — if not by others, then by you yourself. If you don’t know how well you are doing, you can’t adjust your behavior or your strategies accordingly. Check your progress frequently — weekly, or even daily, depending on the goal.

4. Be a realistic optimist. When you are setting a goal, by all means engage in lots of positive thinking about how likely you are to achieve it. Believing in your ability to succeed is enormously helpful for creating and sustaining your motivation. But whatever you do, don’t underestimate how difficult it will be to reach your goal. Most goals worth achieving require time, planning, effort, and persistence. Studies show that thinking things will come to you easily and effortlessly leaves you ill-prepared for the journey ahead, and significantly increases the odds of failure.

5. Focus on getting better, rather than being good. Believing you have the ability to reach your goals is important, but so is believing you can get the ability. Many of us believe that our intelligence, our personality, and our physical aptitudes are fixed — that no matter what we do, we won’t improve. As a result, we focus on goals that are all about proving ourselves, rather than developing and acquiring new skills.
Fortunately, decades of research suggest that the belief in fixed ability is completely wrong — abilities of all kinds are profoundly malleable. Embracing the fact that you can change will allow you to make better choices, and reach your fullest potential. People whose goals are about getting better, rather than being good, take difficulty in stride, and appreciate the journey as much as the destination.

6. Have grit. Grit is a willingness to commit to long-term goals, and to persist in the face of difficulty. Studies show that gritty people obtain more education in their lifetime, and earn higher college GPAs. Grit predicts which cadets will stick out their first grueling year at West Point. In fact, grit even predicts which round contestants will make it to at the Scripps National Spelling Bee.
The good news is, if you aren’t particularly gritty now, there is something you can do about it. People who lack grit more often than not believe that they just don’t have the innate abilities successful people have. If that describes your own thinking …. well, there’s no way to put this nicely: you are wrong. As I mentioned earlier, effort, planning, persistence, and good strategies are what it really takes to succeed. Embracing this knowledge will not only help you see yourself and your goals more accurately, but also do wonders for your grit.
7. Build your willpower muscle. Your self-control “muscle” is just like the other muscles in your body — when it doesn’t get much exercise, it becomes weaker over time. But when you give it regular workouts by putting it to good use, it will grow stronger and stronger, and better able to help you successfully reach your goals.
To build willpower, take on a challenge that requires you to do something you’d honestly rather not do. Give up high-fat snacks, do 100 sit-ups a day, stand up straight when you catch yourself slouching, try to learn a new skill. When you find yourself wanting to give in, give up, or just not bother — don’t. Start with just one activity, and make a plan for how you will deal with troubles when they occur (“If I have a craving for a snack, I will eat one piece of fresh or three pieces of dried fruit.”) It will be hard in the beginning, but it will get easier, and that’s the whole point. As your strength grows, you can take on more challenges and step-up your self-control workout.
8. Don’t tempt fate. No matter how strong your willpower muscle becomes, it’s important to always respect the fact that it is limited, and if you overtax it you will temporarily run out of steam. Don’t try to take on two challenging tasks at once, if you can help it (like quitting smoking and dieting at the same time). And don’t put yourself in harm’s way — many people are overly-confident in their ability to resist temptation, and as a result they put themselves in situations where temptations abound. Successful people know not to make reaching a goal harder than it already is.
9. Focus on what you will do, not what you won’t do. Do you want to successfully lose weight, quit smoking, or put a lid on your bad temper? Then plan how you will replace bad habits with good ones, rather than focusing only on the bad habits themselves. Research on thought suppression (e.g., “Don’t think about white bears!”) has shown that trying to avoid a thought makes it even more active in your mind. The same holds true when it comes to behavior — by trying not to engage in a bad habit, our habits get strengthened rather than broken.
If you want to change your ways, ask yourself, What will I do instead? For example, if you are trying to gain control of your temper and stop flying off the handle, you might make a plan like “If I am starting to feel angry, then I will take three deep breaths to calm down.” By using deep breathing as a replacement for giving in to your anger, your bad habit will get worn away over time until it disappears completely.
It is my hope that, after reading about the nine things successful people do differently, you have gained some insight into all the things you have been doing right all along. Even more important, I hope are able to identify the mistakes that have derailed you, and use that knowledge to your advantage from now on. Remember, you don’t need to become a different person to become a more successful one. It’s never what you are, but what you do.
Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. is a motivational psychologist, and author of the new book Succeed: How We Can Reach Our Goals (Hudson Street Press, 2011). She is also an expert blogger on motivation and leadership for Fast Company and Psychology Today. Her personal blog, The Science of Success, can be found at www.heidigranthalvorson.com. Follow her on Twitter @hghalvorson

Your First Step to a Successful 2014: Create A Dream Board

Happy New Year! It is such a blessing to have the first day of a new year. A time to start over, to reflect, to get energized, motivated and inspired! Honesty check: 2013 was "ok so-so" for me. Whether your 2013 was great, not so great, somewhere in between or your best year ever, there is always room for improvement. New things to learn, skills to improve on, ways to better ourselves. So I challenge you to do just that, starting with this uplifting technique: create a DREAM BOARD.

Take a look at the example above. Very simple, yet straight to the point. Let's reflect on what this person's goals are. To me, their goals are: more money, to have a child (or more time with their child / family), to get married (or find love), to buy a fancy home, and to buy a beautiful new expensive car.

A Dream Board is something you create that visually shows off your dreams and goals for the coming year. It is a visual reminder of what you want to accomplish. By having it in a place you will see constantly (like, daily!), it will motivate you to keep going when times are hard, or when you are feeling lazy, or you have a lax sense of mild accomplishment and your mind wants to be content with just that. Imagine the car yelling out, "HEY! I WANT YOU DRIVING AROUND TOWN IN ME IN 6 MONTHS! BACK TO WORK!" A visual reminder of your goals is VERY POWERFUL.

So, here are 6 steps to creating your very own DREAM BOARD.

Items you need: 
-Large piece of flimsy cardboard. Think what kids get for their science fair project or presentation. 
-Magazines, brochures, pictures of things that will be motivating or inspiring to you, or things / the lifestyle you want.
-Scissors
-Large Marker
-Tape or a gluestick
-A pad of paper and a pen

Step 1: Take your pad of paper and divide it into 6 sections, either on one piece of paper or a separate page for each section. Title the sections as follows: Personal, Physical, Spiritual, Recreational, Professional and Relational. Next, write down at least 5 goals for each section. However it relates to you. If a car you want to buy applies more to you personally, write it in that category. If it applies more to you recreationally, put it there. This is to get the ideas out, from mind to paper. Let it flow- this isn't your final draft. Be specific. Instead of "I want to buy a car," write out the car you want, or at least the style. "I want to buy a BMW 300 series," or "I want to buy a full size truck." You want to lose 25 pounds, you want to go on a missions or charitable short term trip, you want to go on vacation in Cabo San Lucas, you want to meet new friends, you want to read so many business books, you want to run your first 5k race, you want to buy a new home, you want to buy a new suit, you want to be the top producer in your office, you want to visit the new 49ers Football Stadium, you want to go to your company's business retreat in Las Vegas, whatever it is that inspires, challenges and motivates you, write them down.

Step 2: Go through the magazines and cut out words and pictures that relate to the goals you wrote down. Find a picture of that car you want. Heck, go down to the dealership, find a specific brochure about the car you want, take it out on a test drive, then tell the car salesman you will see them again in less than 12 months to pick up your car! ADDED BONUS: BUY A KEYCHAIN AT THE DEALERSHIP THAT HAS THE CAR MAKER'S LOGO ON IT AND ATTACH IT TO YOUR SET OF KEYS! Cut out a picture of a nice house, vacation pics, people having fun at a restaurant, clothes, money, words like SUCCESS, TOP PRODUCER, MONEY, HAPPINESS. The pictures don't have to be anything exotic, just visual examples of your goals- maybe a picture of a family reading a book together (representing more time with family), a picture of a man resting (relaxation, less stress), etc.

Step 3: Layout the clippings over your blank board. Put them in an arrangement that is clean, orderly, a collage format, and in a way that looks good and inspiring. Not too cramped, but don't leave lots of empty space. Leave room for a title!


Step 4: Using your big marker (or printed or cut-out words) give your Dream Board a title. Something exciting. "(First Name)'s Dream Board" or "What I Am Going To Accomplish in 2014!" Use the gluestick or tape to attach your clippings to the board. Take your time and make it look nice.

Step 5: HANG IT UP. Somewhere. Don't think to yourself, "wow, that was an inspiring activity. I think the process itself was motivating enough. I'll just put this in a closet somewhere." NO. HANG IT UP. Someplace prominent. Where you walk by every day. Where you (and others maybe) will see it. Your bathroom, your bedroom, your home office, your work office. If you do put it in your work office, put it somewhere that people visiting your office will see it (ie- NOT behind your door). That way, people will ask you, "hey, what is that for?" TALK ABOUT MOTIVATION!

Step 6: ACT ON IT. Take action. INSPIRATION WITHOUT ACTION IS DELUSION. If one of your goals is to lose 25 pounds, you won't get there unless you change your eating habits, join a gym (and GO to the gym!), and exercise.

Bonus Tip: Challenge your co-workers or friends to participate with you. Make a night of it. Be in a big room with a big tables (or numerous ones) with room to spread out. Everyone bring a couple magazines- more for everyone to get inspiration from. Get ideas from others on how to make your Dream Board better. Order pizza and have fun.

ACHIEVE. You can do it.

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